I was inspired to write this blog post as a result of what someone commented on one of my Facebook posts.
Here’s what I wrote:
Reviewing some new coaching clients answers to my Client Interview Questionnaire! I just love helping my clients live the life of their dreams! I sure LOVE what I do!
And here is what someone posted on my wall in reply to this status update:
“I wish my job was something that I could love every day…but its just NOT. There are many aspects that nobody should have to endure, but someone has to. Like your job, people call me when situations get beyond their control…but unlike me, they are happy to deal with you. You are very fortunate. Never forget that.”
Now, my first reaction to this was …
“Yes, I am fortunate, but you can feel that way too!!! You can choose a different job. You are never “stuck”! And embracing the attitude of “someone has to do a job that nobody should ever have to endure and I am the one who has to do it” – that’s just a story you are telling yourself. Also, if you EXPECT that people are going to be unhappy dealing with you at your job, then you will get just that … unhappy people. And it is not because of the type of job you have. It is because you are expecting the worst, so your expectation manifests your experiences! Period!”
Now, I didn’t mean to be harsh with my answer to this, I just want you to realize that you are NEVER “stuck” in any life situation. You can change it if you really want to.
“Feeling stuck” is a story you are telling yourself.
And you always have the choice to pivot the story and tell yourself something that will feel more empowering and will bring you relief.
I quit my corporate job to start my own business because I had enough of that corporate environment. It was no longer aligned with what was bringing me joy. I made that decision for me and my overall happiness!
You have a choice too. You are ALWAYS at choice in any given moment of the day to change what you are thinking and feeling and ultimately change the direction of your life path for the better.
If you don’t like your job, you don’t have to “put up” with it because “someone has to do it”. And why does that someone have to be you anyway?
There are plenty of people who follow careers that to other people may appear dangerous, depressing, challenging, but to them it is their passion – think of Doctors, Law Enforcement, Suicide Hotlines, Social Workers, etc.
There may be lots of stress in these types of jobs but if you are one of the people who has this type of career, hopefully you picked this career because it is something you are passionate about and it is aligned with your values and brings you great joy.
And if you are in one of these careers where you initially went into it for the passion but you find that you have lost the passion for it OR if it has become too stressful and is starting to impact your quality of life, then why not do something about it? Decide that you are worth so much more than “settling for something that doesn’t make you happy”.
The change you seek starts with working on YOU.
After all, isn’t it all about enjoying YOUR life?
Aren’t you entitled to live a life you love?
This is what I am so passionate about helping my coaching clients with!
Now, you may be thinking “what about the economy, this isn’t the time to be making changes”. Well, the “economy” is only an issue if you believe it to be. The only thing that matters that will have an impact on what you can do next is what you believe is possible, no matter what is happening outside of you. The nature of your thoughts, feelings and beliefs is what determines your life experiences.
YOU create your reality.
If you feel “stuck” in any area of your life, I would love to help you get unstuck!
And by the way, “stuck” is just a mindset. It’s a story you are telling yourself that you have the power to change. Ultimately it is all up to you, but I can guide you by asking you the right questions that will unlock what is right for you so that you can live a life that is filled with joy and ease. Doesn’t that sound so much lighter and exciting than settling for something less than a fabulous life?!
Always remember … you are NEVER stuck. There is always a path that you can take that will align more with what brings you JOY! And the key is to embrace the right mindset that will get you there. And there is nothing that is stopping you from doing that … except you!